Aug 24, 2010

True Loves Are Called Cares.

You know whats called True Loves?
Everyone, You have to know that.
You can have all.
But one things you have to do.
There are 4 Kinds of things
to be on you.
Here you are.
One psychologist has written, a mature love, true love must be described in four stages, and that is one. Coexistence (codependent) 2. Anti-dependence (counterdependent) 3. Independent (independent) 4. Symbiotic (interdependent ) phase change between the time required may not, vary.

The first phase coexistence
This is love period, no matter what when and where lovers always want together.

The second phase of anti-dependence
Emotional stability until after at least one wants to do what you want to do, then the other will feel the cold.

The third phase of the independent
This is a continuation of the second phase, demand more independence and autonomy of the time

Fourth stage of the symbiotic
Then get along with the new has been formed, you, he (she) has become the most pro-and you can not do without the people, and you together and help each other, not mutually tie him with you, but will grow with each other.

However, most people pass the second or third stage, a variety of reasons as an excuse not to love the implementation of action, action is the final outcome of true love, false love not withstand the test of time, and the choice a break this way, do not understand how a hard-earned love, understand value and many things of good communication will be all right, do not be too personal, do not think too much, not to each other completely as his own private products Do not try to strip each other without reservation to the other, to trust each other, so that the second and third stages of the time will be shortened. And met the love Love is not an easy task, and never give up, two people meet because of affinity, knowing each other because of the determination, there is something to treasure the blessings, not to mention breaking up is not free from the .

Really want to see the four stages to give you some inspiration and insight and to cherish edge, we will gradually become the people we love.

You and he did not in common, appearance does not resemble, personality is entirely different, and once fell in love with Nianshenrijiu, you will be amazed your eyes a little like his eyes, his smile a bit like your smile, your pace of walking also somewhat similar expectations and more and more like talking. His neck a mole, one day you find your neck can have a mole, had we become the people we love.

Down to earth person you would have liked, but he always frivolous, but you fall in love, and that he would unwittingly become an honest man, this change does not even have been aware of his own.

He would have liked the lively girl, was restrained in love with you, you are actually more lively these days, almost could not recognize himself, we will gradually become our ideals in the other person, such a change, certainly not deliberate.

Two of the more long-term love, temperament more similar. Have you ever thought that he was not the type you desire. However, one day you surprised to find that he has become the type you like, you do not have to search everywhere, he is the person you're looking for.

Deeply in love with a man, you had really lost a little bit yourself why you feel happy? Probably because you were on you earn, your temperament, and his smile is a bonus ... ...

In fact, very simple to be happy, love and courage to action, or feelings can only East PASSING.

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